TTC Cycle #9: May 6, 2010-June 2, 2010 (28 days)
CD 4- Mother's Day. I do okay during church until the end, when the priest asks all the mothers to stand up and the whole congregation applauds for them. I start tearing up and manage to keep it in until I get to the car. Why can't it be me?! We've been trying to conceive a child for 10 months with no results.
I only wrote this on my chart: "28 day cycle! Never have had one of those before!" I guess the rest of the cycle was uneventful.
TTC Cycle #10: June 3, 2010-July 10, 2010 (38 days)
CD 9- Last day of teaching for the school year!!! We have a much needed "girls' night out" tonight. I have many drinks throughout the evening and don't get home until 3am. The hangover the next day was well worth it- haha!
CD 12- I got a call from the OBGYN's office today reminding me about the appointment on Wednesday. The receptionist asks me if I have called my insurance to see if they'd pay for the appointment. I'm like, huh? So I call my insurance....
They won't pay for a fertility consult.
I start crying (and this is 11am, and I'm at work!). I can't call DH because he's teaching, so I call my mom so I can have someone to cry to. She offers to pay for it!!! I didn't even call with the intention of asking her to pay, I seriously just didn't want to cry by myself. So then I'm worried about the cost because they couldn't tell me how much it's going to be. I know they want to do an ultrasound to see if there's a mature follicle. My friend Jen had an ultrasound when she had her miscarriage, and it cost her $600!
CD 14- So I went to the appointment yesterday...and it was amazing! He took me into his office and we talked for 20 minutes about my history before he even took me into a patient room. He said that I have sub-fertility, not infertility, and that he thinks I'm perfectly normal. He said only 75% of couples will conceive within a year. If I was 38, we'd be going at this aggressively, but since I'm only 24, he says we're going to take baby steps (haha). He told me all the things we would try as we go along and I'm still not pregnant. I got a referral to the Center for Applied Reproductive Science (CARS) to get DH's semen analyzed. Insurance won't pay for that, so my mom said she'd take care of it too.
Next week I'm going back on Day 21 of my cycle to get lab work done and check my progesterone levels to see if I actually ovulated. Insurance will pay for that because he's coding the visit as a "fatigue" complaint. It was funny... he's like, "Do you feel tired?" "Sometimes." "Do you feel like you could use an extra hour of sleep every night?" (Now he's winking at me). I'm like, "of course!" haha :) I have a follow up visit on Monday, July 19th. Insurance probably won't pay for that because it'll be actual fertility stuff, not just an office visit (I only had to do a $40 co-pay for this visit, thank goodness). I feel like we're on the right track :D
CD 17- Attended wedding #1 of 2 this week. The bride and groom got Celtic wedding knots tattooed on their ring fingers! They rented a house with 10 acres of property to get married and hold the reception at. Gorgeous! AND they went to Germany on their honeymoon :) They asked DH and I advice about it before they left, since that's where we went for our honeymoon 4 years prior!
CD 21- First bloodwork ever done today. Everything was normal except for my progesterone levels, which were low. They said I wasn't ovulatory.
CD 23- Head to ATL for wedding #2 (my cousin's wedding). Here's a dancing picture from the reception. I'm the one on the far left. L is in the middle (30 wks pregnant), and my cousin K is on the right (24 wks pregnant). Can I say that I want a baby too?!?!
Sisters! E, Me, and L
CD 25- According to my chart (tracking basal body temp and mucus), I ovulated today. So I don't know.
CD 26-30- I go to the beach with DH's cousins and uncle (minus DH since he had to work :( !) It's a much needed vacation from my sub-fertility.
I <3 the beach!
CD 34- DH's SFA today. It came back normal! Praise God! It was only $110, which is much cheaper than what I expected. We paid for it ourselves, even though my mom offered to pay initially.
CD 35- I head to FL by myself (plus my dog, Riley) to visit family and help host my sister's baby shower on Saturday. HP7 on 17 CDs (21 hours) keeps me company.
CD 36- Beach with my sister, E! I promise there's sand behind the boulders- lol :)
Notice the barrier to keep the oil off the beach :( Luckily, it worked!
CD 37- Scalloping! It's a favorite pasttime of my family :) One of the things I miss about living in FL... The video was made for my mom since she couldn't come with us. L is about 32 weeks along.
CD 38- L's baby shower. Notice that I'm dutifully writing down all the gifts like a good big sister. My grandma is on the other side of L. I survived through the afternoon. I should get some kind of award for that.
CD 39- AF returns :( At least it held off until today instead of coming yesterday. That would've made an already sad day even worse.